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Service · 02

Couples therapy.

We work on the dynamic under-current of your relationship so you can stop getting stuck in the same old fights, power struggles and defensive habits.

Length
50-minute sessions
Cadence
Weekly or biweekly
Format
Virtual or in-person

Best fit if…

  • 01You're having the same fight in different costumes.
  • 02You want something past communication skills, closer to actual repair.
  • 03One or both of you have done individual work and want to bring it home.
  • 04You're at a decision point and need clarity before you make it.
  • 05You want to divorce-proof your marriage.

What it looks like

The shape of the work.

Intake

Fifty minutes together to get to know you both, your history, what's working, what isn't working and what you want for your best future together.

The work

We slow the loop down enough that you can see the attachment dynamics and patterns firing underneath it, then practice doing something different in the room.

Repair, not refereeing

I won't be picking a winner. The goal is to understand what each of you is protecting and what the relationship pays for that protection.

When it ends

Either you've shifted the pattern and want to maintain it, or you've gotten clear about what you need to decide. Both are useful outcomes.

Another option

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